The Pillars Of Life

Okay cool, so on Thursday the 14th of August 2025 and I sometimes like you know again I've read somewhere and I'm not entirely certain whether this is factually true but I've read somewhere that effectively like you know there are a certain number of pillars in life and I feel

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like the first pillar is effectively learning how to live with oneself and then the second pillar is then learning how to live with others which you know

so far it just seems to make sense you know in a certain logic like you know after all in the first pillar in life initially you learn how to live with yourself you learn how to effectively become self-sufficient so I guess that correlates in that sense and then you learn how to live with with others or for others or whatever that's supposed to mean and

The thing that I struggle with the most is effectively just effectively living with others

especially people who have ideas that very very much they vary very much from my own and How do I begin to effectively compartmentalize that? How do I begin to break that apart? Well, my different perspective on fairness, right? My perspective on fairness is in essence, one that very, very much clashes with pretty much your average person's perspective on fairness. I don't believe in fairness.

What's the point in believing in fairness? People are born of different shapes and sizes. People are born in different places and different statuses across society, both in the East and the West. Why try to effectively expect or beg the world to effectively shape and mould life in such a way that is fair towards you? Why not instead do something that is actually far closer to your own control and that is

effectively develop the attitude and develop the grit that allows you to smile far greater and far better and far happier than the person who has it fairer than you and that's just the way that I feel that's my sentiment today because I'm surrounded by people that just basically like you know they want things fair they want things to be you know they want life to play in accordance to their rules whereas for me I've always found it easier to just effectively change

the way that I look at life, change my perspective, change my attitude and learn how to smile and, you know, be happier than the person who has it easier than me, to be happier than the person who, you know, cannot, you know, you know, cannot cope without having life you know, cannot, you know, you know, cannot cope without having life being set within their own parameters.