On Their BS

Okay, cool. So Friday the 21st of March 2025 and I hate calling people out on their BS. You know, as much as I'm now beginning to recognize that it is important to hold people accountable, I've never really shared the sentiment of like, you know, calling people out on

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their BS because, again, it's an uncomfortable situation, difficult conversations, right? It's about having difficult conversations. And I don't think that I'm naturally a confrontational person, which comes with like benefits, but it also comes with like disadvantages. In other words, like, you know, I'm not a practical, you know, I

guess I don't look, you know, basically what it does is that it doesn't make me practical in a sense, like, you know, I'm not a practical negotiator in that sense. You know, I don't speak, you know, often at times you will find that I don't speak honestly purely for the benefit of avoiding confrontation. But I'm slowly beginning to recognize the reality that difficult conversations become even more difficult the more that I avoid them. Whereas the more that I face them, the more that I do it, the more I effectively learn how to pick the right

bone with somebody, especially when they've done me wrong to a certain extent. But yeah, like picking, like I said, confrontation is something that I guess I've never really been particularly great at. And another reason why I guess I'm not really a fan of calling people out on their BS is because life is, you know, everybody will have to a certain extent their views, morals, values, perspectives or whatever it is but none of those views like completely eclipse the entire world. As in there's so much about culture, history, geography, different tribes and different species of men and women that I can't have a world view,

a well-rounded world view for me to turn around and effectively judge somebody as doing something right or wrong if that makes sense and of course things become even a little bit more complicated when you know feelings get brought into it and uh... sometimes i don't know feelings can betray me personally which is why i always try to be i guess uh... not necessarily diplomatic but i

try to be as forgiving as possible and just make sure that i stay out of harm's way