External Opinions

Right cool, so Thursday the 24th of July 2025 and you know there's many things that I could talk about but something that I'm probably gonna talk about something that's been on the back of my mind is effectively just you know how I feel about other people's external opinions

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not of me but just kind of like you know you know whether they're points of advice or their perspectives or whatever it is.

Now I'm not entirely certain what my position is when it comes to kind of like advice. Advice that is solicited is great, unsolicited advice even though it is unsolicited sometimes if it's great advice is also great. But you know as time goes on, I don't know, I do kind of like tend to have a too hard, do tend to have a bit of a sensitive spot when it comes to or a touchy spot when it comes to like you know advice that comes from a position of like you know non-understanding or not really appreciating what the situation is or understanding

like where somebody is and why certain things might not be able to apply. And the reason why I say that is because, the reason why I feel that way anyway is because I just go through the notion, or at least I like to think that I do. I'm not always perfect in this regard,

but it's like I always just, you know, do my best to really try to soak in and understand that I don't understand people's situations and therefore I do whatever it is that I can to color and to paint and to really crystallize what somebody's situation is before I begin to offer any kind of solution. That is if it's even solicited to begin with. And you know, like it's annoying because it's like,

I feel like there are a couple of people in my life that don't really understand my situation. They don't really get it. And yet they put themselves in a position where they start to throw out information that, you know, to them, the solution seems simple,

but to me, I'm like, well, you know, that's just basically kind of like my short journey